Writings on Process & Identity

Explorations at the intersection of lived experience, relational dynamics, and cultural change. These essays apply a processual lens to make sense of the patterns shaping us.

The following are standalone pieces. Each takes a single idea and examines its underlying structure. From how we collapse and how we argue, to how we take in the news. These writings are the gateway to the framework. Think of them as focused lenses for observing the grammar of your own experience.

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Philosophical Inquiry

The Grammar of Identity: From Your Broken Heart to a Forest Fire's Recovery

From wildfire to heartbreak, living systems metabolize disruption, transform, and renew through a universal four-phase cycle. Discover how processes like grief and recovery follow the same natural grammar as a forest fire or societal change.

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The Personal Struggle

How Can I Live When They Don't?

If you've ever felt guilty for "still" grieving, you're not failing. Grief is the lifelong work of learning to live in a world irrevocably altered by loss.

This a guide to carrying your love forward into a world forever changed by their absence.

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The Personal Struggle

The Creative Block

What if the frustration of a blank page is creative indigestion? And instead of a lack of ideas, you're overloaded and struggling to process?

Learn to diagnose the four types of creative block and redirect that pent-up energy into flow.

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The Cultural Observer

The Miracle in the Hot Room.

A fresh look at the 1787 Constitutional Convention as a human drama of being stuck, exploring the competing voices that clashed and ultimately integrated to create a new nation.

See how breakthrough emerges from the tension between different ways of knowing.

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Modern Discourse

Political polarization explained structurally.
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The Personal Struggle Coming Soon

You’re Not Who You Were This Morning.

Let's walk through an ordinary day and see the subtlety of change across it.
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The Family Unit

How to navigate the unique weather of your family's identity. Learn to forecast the pressure systems.
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From Reading to Practice

These writings explore the 'why' and 'what'. To engage with the 'how', visit the Practice Hub, where concepts become interactive tools for self-observation.
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